Again, I have conservative family that lecture me like you do. So I do know the stats they usually quote, the points they usually repeat, etc. The thing, I tend to "dissect" the stats, arguments and look at the data. The problem is that when I look at the actions, it all comes down to conservatives claiming that there is "racism" towards whites. And when you ask for specifics, the premise is that things "naturally" belong to whites, so when you try to eliminate unfair advantages, you are "discriminating" whites. Sorry, but data won't back you up.