And this is the part where you distort the argument.

Let's see, the thing that would make you become a parent is having children and raising them. Someone who adopts becomes a parent. someone who gives birth but gives it for adoption doesn't become a parent. Someone who aborts, doesn't become a parent (obviously). So "doing the one thing that would result in becoming a parent" haven't happened.

I know that it is an euphemism for "sex". But let's be honest here, not only many people use contraception and it fails, you can become pregnant because of rape. So in that context, we should consider "being raped" instead of "sex". Then you have "stealthing" which means men actively deceiving woman by sabotaging contraconception. So in that context that means "trusting the wrong man" or "being deceived".

So good job justifying that "becoming a parent" is the punishment for women who have sex or are raped. Surely the children would be thrilled to know when they grow up. XD