Basically what you are saying is “I don’t care about what women want?”. So hay stop at the shirt that say so? I mean we are already saying “we won’t want men yo approach at the street", you just said that you have understood that and yet, you won’t acept that. You would approach a woman knowing full Wells that you are making her unhappy. What dos that said about you? That you are willing to make the woman you claim to like unhappy in order to feel manly? And that after, predictability, the woman feel unhappy instead of happy you feel the need to blame her ir feminist or whatever? There never was a chance for that to work to begin with. That is the point. Not even traditional couples meet at the street. The are introduced or meet at church activities or other activities traditional people who follow the traditional descrptions of being “masculine” and “femenine" do. And i have bad news, you might think that approaching a woman that doesn’t want to be approached make you masculine, bug women like me would just think that you don’t care about what we want, you don’t respect what we have already communicated, and that make you selfish in our eyes, not masculine. It is a matter of values and perception. On the other hand, the men you consider “feminized", are the ones we like. It is just the way of things.
I hope that if you insist on being rude by imposing what you want over what we have already communicated, at least you accept that us being angry and showing it is a fair answer to your attempt. Even to the point of us being rude too instead of complaining about “women not being able to take a compliment". Right?
The romance with the stranger is s fantasy or selfdelusion. Who do you know that meet like that and really date? I know no one, not even a friend of a friend of a friend. Again, it is about you and how it make you feel. It is quite normal that we don’t see it as romantic. And lets be honest, since we don’t think that being selfish is something required to ve masculine, neither a masculine trait, well, as already said, we don’t consider men who approached woman who doesn’t want to be approached masculine. Point of view matters. I guess it is similar to traditional men not considering feminist women “femenine" (sadly that won’t stop that men from approaching, hence this discussion).
