Blade runner is about what make us human/people, not men. That is why the ending when is heavily implied that Deckard was a replicant all along was so meaningfull.

The fact that you think it is about men, is telling.

Finding your place in society is not a "male" dilema, is a person dilema. Women face it too. And the fact is that you don't need to follow any patter or ideal for masculinity, you can chose your own. You can make your own path.

That is the thing, you complain about society changing, but don't see that people always has had difficulties to fit in. Thinking that women have it easier or don't face that is deluded.

And in case you missed it, both films had replicant women and de IA who was the "next" who needed to prove it's personhood was also "female". The "he is or he isn't" that applies to Deckard, is directly "she isn't human" with the female replicants or the IA. It is Ok to kill those women, they aren't human. And from the exitic dancer, Daryl Hanna or the new IA, all of them are sexual, beautiful, available and pleasing... Perfect feminity and the movie didn't even entertain that they can be human, they are presented as non-human from the get go. What you don't seem to understand is that by saying Deckard is a replicant, it implies that those replicant-IA women, were also people/human. If Deckard is human/people even if he is a replicant, so are the women. That is exactly the point. We all are "outsiders" but at the same time, we are all human/people despite not "fitting".

The social mandates that need to be ditches are not just the ones for men, you also need to ditch the ones for women and non-binary.