But if you lower the conditions of what you need, the less likely it is that you end in a relationship that works and you can enjoy. Bad relationships are worse than being single and only her can know what works for her.

For some women the aim is not to be partnered with anyone, but with someone they actually like. Same goes for men.

I mean, it is great if you have found a partner that makes you happy, but not all people is the same and sometimes lowering standards leads to unhappy relationships. Also, some people have many conditions and are able to find someone who cover them. Hers doesn't sound imposible. I mean, she is looking for someone who shares her hobby and is able to take care of himself.

My boyfriend is able to take care of himself and shares some hobbies with me, not impossible.