But you probably thought that you could handle it and didn't expected to be raped. Never see that as potentially scalating to rape. Or being murdered. That is the thing.

In my country there was a woman who acted with a thug. She honey trapped older men, take them to a secluded house and the thug kill them to steal from them. The victims didn't consider the potential danger.

After it was found out, for a while, men changed how they acted, more careful in dating apps. And the news or the police didn't told men to change their behavious to avoid that danger. No one blamed them for being careless. It didn't last. But with women, there is always a new women murdered to remind you of the danger. And how it was those women fault for going out or wearing certain clothes or being too trusting...

Just pay attention at the news and the comments when a women is found raped and murdered. Pay attention to the advice fathers give their daughters. See if you find a pattern.