Correction: while women are busy pursuing a career and having a life, they are not playing the role of submisive bangmaid and the "Larrys" that she consider "high value" complain because no longer they have women 10 years younger available for them just because they need to marry since they have no other options.
The "unimpresed high value men" who watch from the sidelines somehow are missing that what the women pursue is careers. From time to time they complain about lower maternity rate and decline in marriage because they still expect to date a 20 something while in their 30s or 40s, but those young women have ambitions and prefer to date their age. Somhow they have decided that men of the same age as those women are "toxic" because they do things normal for their age. And how dare the women have fun or build careers instead of focusing in dating them?