Different requirements, not more.
The thing is that many requirements men have, are so internalized that have become "invisible". But those requirements are still there.
Next time you swipe left on a woman, ask yourself why. Lets say "I don't find her physically attractive". Well, that is a requirement that she looks certin way. Or, "she looks trashy", so that is a requirement to wear different clothes and make up. We can go on.
As I tried to explain, we also pick on different visual and written clues.