Doesn't this describe the role of men in your model? Are you saying that traditional men contribute nothing but money to the family? That would mean that the traditional father could be replaced by a check... Or could it be that you apply double standars to men and women?

My mother worked full time outside the home. Sure, I did my own homework, but we had quality time together. And interestingly enough, she was able to explain physics if asked, while the traditional mothers that stayed home, didn't understanded the question. Both my parents worked, both did domestic chores, my brother and I were taken care of and went to university and got jobs. Your claim that working women have "jack squat" to offer to their families is false. They also offered us a role model about pursuing our dreams, not just doing what other want us to do.

By the way, this is the point were YOU are criticizing other women's choices. So it seems it is YOU who aren't happy with women having choices or making a different choice than you. And whenever I see a traditional women saying that non traditional women are bad mothers, I can't help to think that they are bitter with their own choices and not as happy as they claim.

The one who are happy, instead collaborate with non traditional women to have easier lives. I mean, you do know that career women can be friends with stay at home moms, right? And that they can help each other taking advantage of each others strenghts, right? For example, my mother helped with the more difficult homework that the homemakers didn't understanded so their children did good at the exams. Meanwhile, I stayed at their home until my mother came from work. Go figure, women helping each other instead of competing for a man!

This is the thing, career women are just following a different path than you. They offer different things to their families, but that doesn't make them worse, masculine or "unnatural". Just human.