Getting to pick is also a form of power. Sure, you might be rejected, but it also helps you move on or get a chance with the person you actually like, not setling for one of the person that likes you. That is basically why some women take initiative now. Of course apps make it "easier" since you only have to swipe right. But even face to face, I've done it and save a lot of time. After all, if they don't like you, the sooner you know, the better.