Have you considered that for some women it is better to never marry than "speaking submisive and compliant women" at every chance just to please a men and get married? I mean, I do know some women who are bitter at their marriages. And they hurt and feel like doormats. And wish they never have married.

So maybe it is OK to just let people choose what is important for them. You can compromise in the unimportant things. But you shouldn't compromise on values and feminist don't share values with sexist men. They won't be happy with someone who doesn't see them as equals.