I always find this post interesting because how much they missed the point. In case you haven't noticed, many feminist are talking about being happy being single. Or about being tired of the not so subtle manipulations of red-black pillers-whatever dating-guru.
And we talk among ourselves, we have friends and also adapt. That means that once a man who use manipulation to get his way is identified, all the woman in a group of friends would discard him.
You theory about supply and demand fails because is not taking into account several realities:
1. Lesbians and bi women who would never date men.
2. The male-female ratio changes if you take into account age. If men in their 20-30 want to date women in their 20-30 and men in their 30-40 also want to date women in ther 20-30 your ratios are skewed.
3. Women who are feed up with all the mind games and rather be single or that thave other aims in life who won't put up with shit. This women would chose to remain single because it works for them.
Feminist aren't sabotaging men, they are just refusing to put up with people who treat them badly. You aren't treating women well, you are trying to manipulate them to get your way. The women who notice this, would reject you because of that. You are self sabotaging by becoming something they actively dislike. Feminist finding out about manipulation and warning other women is not sabotage to you, is self defense and perfectly logical. You are the one failing for considering women easily manipulable and that if you fail with one, that won't have consequences with others. But how you trear one person might reduce your chances with others.
Example: You know that trend about asking every women in a bar for sex? Asking one reduced your chances with all the other women present. Because all the other women alredy know that they weren't your first choice. Dating or having sex with one women, reduces your chances with all her friends, because they won't want to hurt their friend. And with social media people tend to know this things.
When you talk about "sabotage the wife" you show that you undestand nothing. The "wife" is a person. As such, she has their own ideas, dreams, hopes and hability to learn. If once she is in a country where women have some rights doesn't put up with a man shit, then maybe it is because what the man was offering wasn't as good as being single. That is the thing, for you is about control, not being with someone. And you can't control life. The best thing you can do is adapt.
By the way, I don't think you are cheating the system, just deluded. People can be happy being single. When being single makes you happier than being with someone, then it follows that you remain single. That is basically what you are seeing in the dating pool. Traditional marriage is good for men, bad for women. Hence, women pass on traditional marriage and preffer to not date. Reducing the dating pool of men we don't like anyway won't makes us change, because we never were interested to begin with. We were already chosing single over dating them.
When we help other women, from another countries or our own, it is not about us not wanting you to be happy, is about us not wanting those women to be unhappy and/or exploited. It is not about numbers, is about people. Until you understand that, you'll fail, no matter which pill color you swalow. XD