I do treat people of both sexes with the same respect. The thing is that some men think that they deserve more respect that what they give. Or the things that they consider "respect for a man from a woman" are basically things that means being subservient. Well, in that case, I won't be considered respectful.

If you see yourself saying things like "the respect I'm owed as a man", then it is quite possible that we don't understand each other.

To put an example: I do hold the door for people. It is not an statement, it is just the logical thing to do. You reach the door first, you open it and hold it for everyone behind you. A neighbour is carrying bags and you hold the door regardless.

But that part where men expect that you cook, serve the table and clean after while they rest? Well, I do work full time too, why should I do doble sift and also serve? When is my turn to be served? And no, going to a restaurant doesn't count.

I'm quite aware that many men would consider disrespectful to expect them to do their share. Or to disagree with them on economic matters. Or to speak up or do many things that they do constantly. we are not compatible and that is OK. Besides, there are men who would do their share and show the same level of respect.

But at the end of the day, people tend to show the same level of respect that they receive or that is modeled to them.