I don't know about you specifically. What you do and what you don't. But I do know that in atopic where we are talking about "balancing narratives" and I explaines that to get bakanced narratives we do need more women's points of view because historically there have been a lot less than men's, you answered saying that "why is not enough". Well, in that context implies that we should be happy now and stop insisting for more (even if we are not at equality yet). Maybe that wasn't your intention, but that is how it reads.

Are you making a difference? Am I making a difference? Who knows. Sometimes when it comes to social change, you need to decide what feels right for you. But let me ask you this, whatever you are doing, why are you doint it?

To achieve equality? Because is fair? So those "anoying feminists shut the fuck up"? To get praised by women? There are plenty of reasons, only you know your own reasons and you don't need to tell me. But if you are doing it because equality is fair and the right thing, it is irrelevant if feminist acknowledge you or not. If you want praise or a cookie or whatever, then you would need to achieve results. Since we are far from equality, and in some places women are losing rights, I think it is normal that there are not much praise.

And it is also normal that women complain when some men decide to put obstacles because the ways those women have chosen to fight are uncomfortable for men. Maybe they aren't willing to put an extra effort in something that is hard in itself to preserve the feelings of the people who benefits from the system that hurts them.

Now tell me, why men say that we are going too far when we haven't reached the goal yet?