I don’t think they would have a problem with bisexual women or lesbian that fit beauty standards and are willing to put up with performing for straigth men.

Straight women enjoy fit men in skimpy clotes or naked. You only need to look at how succesful was Aleksander Skaargard on True blood. Is more about the insecurity and inadecuacy that causes being a desire object. After all, if that men was hot, he would put to shame the men who aren’t hot in that party…

My point is that a fat woman would have also been told that she was inapropiate (fat shaming) because is about what straight men want to see. Straight women have no problem with speedos. XD