I think is good that you make a list for yourself that some men would share. Others would think is OK to date some of the women in the list.

Dating is complicated and is important to know what you are looking for in a partner.

You seem to look for long term commitment, so I'm giving you a tip. People who want commitment, would be interested in knowing things about you. They would ask questions, remember the answers and expect that you do the same.

But, and this is important, they might have experienced ghosting or men who didn't commit and so, keep seeing other men because they don't know if you want commitment. Talking openly about this might help. As in "I want commitment and want us to be exclusive. I'm not comfortable with you seeing other people". That way you avoid misunderstandings and if she keeps seeing other people, then is on her (su dump her). Of course this goes both ways.

But I've seen people who liked each other and none of them stopped seeing other people because they keep seeing the other person on the dating app. SoI suggest talking as soons as you know that you want to be serious. XD

By the way, I don't really know why do you consider this antifeminism, many of the things on your list can be applied to men. So unless you think that women should behave one way, but the men should be allowed to do the things on the list, it is reasonable.