I think that the real scenario is more similar to the "nazi's son who inherited his stolen riches". Women complain about a situation where you are involved. For example: you expeting them to prioritize your feelings and them making you feel good about all the things that supposedly you do for equality. We are expected to be grateful and reward you. Them pointing out that expecting to be rewarded for giving them what is only fair, it is in fact unfair. After all, men never reward women for treating them as equals.
I mean, you have accused me of sounding as hating men just for pointing out that there is inequality and that centuries of that make the point of view skewed. I never said, "men are responsible of everything wrong" or anything like that. Yet you put similar words in my mounth in order to not address the real points I made.
You might want to consider that if you want equality, maybe you have to acept to feel a little uncomfortable when you hear women talk about the past so things change and doesn't repeat. Silence would fix nothing. And not fixing things might very well make many women hate men. The only reason we are trying to fix things is because we don't hate men.