I think the problem is that women aren't moving forward, they are moved backward. Yet, they are expected to support men in moving forwards while being sent back to the past.
And the same could be said for gays and people of color whose rights are on the line now.
Sure, you might think that what happens now is "forward" for women. But many women don't see is that way. They haven't been persuaded, neither empathized with. It has been imposed by a minority who has never listened to them (or even considered them people).
So the women who have resources, would try to move to other states where they can feel safe.