I wish it was true. But since men like you don't listen, they usually only care about looks. And as it happens, feminist women are as likely to be prety as compliant non feminist. Truth be told, it is also likely that those women dump the man before the marriage, but at the same time, the non feminist women might change their minds after trying how it is to be married to a man like you and yes, ask for divorce. We have seen this plenty of times.
Again, you don't have to listen, read or pay attention, just stop complaining about divorce rates and how dificult it is to find compliant women. XD