I would specially recommend this to people who like shy people. A shy men might not ask unless he gets the opportunity and is encouraged which takes a lot of work. But if he likes you, he might say yes if you ask.

I mean, whn younger and less experienced, I liked one, but since other guys tried to hook up with me, he wouldn't approach. Since I have no patience I was the one who skip steps and did it. We were together for 10 years, so not a bad move. XD