If they ask about body count, they basically saying "hi, I'm sexist". It is a good sign of someone you should walk away.

It is another contradiction in "traditional" (aka sexist) cultures. On one hand virginity is supposed to be important. On the other, women aren't taught to be assertive and their rejections are ignored. And, of course, no sex education or teachings about consent.

Maybe the answer we should start giving is "I'm sorry, I think it is not going to work between us". And just end the date at that point. No explanations, no debate. Just walk away.