Elisa Mariño
1 min readNov 5, 2024

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If they could, they would take my rights. Since they can't they travel to countries where is easier to find vulnerable women.

You might not understand how bringing sexist women to the country creates presure for not sexist women, but it happens. If they stay on the other countries, then is... outsourcing the problem to those other countries.

The thing is not so much about finding a partner that you find nice, the thing is, do you think those women that you find more attractive think the same of you? That is why I said you should listen to what those women say. Understand their culture, their needs, what they really want out of the relationship. And if after all that both of you have mutual attraction and works, great. But cultural differences are challenging and many times western men doesn't really understand the women on those countries. I don't know about phillipines, but Colombian women have a lot of opinions on US men (let's face it, it is not western or american, it is US men). I'm guessing that assian women also have their own set of standards that include things like extreme respect for their families, taking care of the whole family (which includes sending money to family or even bringing them to your house) and plenty more things. Many times, western men expect that those women addapt to their customs, but not addapt to theirs. And many assian women write about being stereotyped as "submisive" or being fetishiced.

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Elisa Mariño
Elisa Mariño

Written by Elisa Mariño

Fiction is the art to tell lies to show truths. Politics is the art to use truths to tell lies.

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