I'm not american. And I happen to speak spanish. By the way if you want to continue this discussion in spanish, you only have to say it.

Also, what I said is that they have their own version of feminism. And I linked one of them so you could read directly what she has to say.

You are the one who is not listening. Not them, not me. Otherwise, you might have already noticed that my ideas aren't american. hahaha

Las mujeres indígenas de sudamérica nos han enseñado mucho a las occidentales sobre empoderamiento y nuevas perspectivas sobre el feminismo. Ya que me acusas de no escucharlas y de ser condescendiente con ellas, te dejo con un video que en idioma local de mujeres indígenas feministas:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=klxw9IB6xDw

By the way, your assumption that western feminist aren't also learning from indigenous feminist is also quite patronizing.

I can link sources in spanish of those indigenous feminist women. One of their concerns happens to be child marriage.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ytqDOajSW2Q

What is really patronizing is to say that when those women speak up about the abuses they suffer, that they do so because they aren't influenced and not because they are suffering. So just listen from the source, to what those girls actually say. In their own language. They do nothing about "western" feminism. But they do know that they didn't liked being sold in marriage to an older man. They also talk about the punishment if they refuse.

So why do you consider that the men who do this have more say than the girls and the women about their culture? Ah, yes, because wester culture consider men more important. Culture also belongs to girls and women and they say that forced marriage is wrong. I'm listening to them in their own terms and language. So where are those girls happu to be married to a 50 year old?