Interesting that you think that lesbians are going to be available to you and that you consider everyone potential cheaters. Or how you ignore the dataminging from dating apps.
But considering your comment, you are in the demographic of those men who pester unninterested women thinking that they would change their minds.
As for bedding feminist, I'm afraid that feminist that only want sex do exist. That those feminist are interested in lasting relationships with men who aren't is a complete different thing.
The stats stand, there are more men in dating apps, than women.
https://eddie-hernandez.com/online-dating-gender-ratios/
https://www.mic.com/articles/110774/two-thirds-of-tinder-users-are-men-here-s-why