I've answered your points. You just don't like my answers.
Apparently what is fair for women (having to work on relationships) is not fair for men.
And you keep talking about "conversion" when no one is trying to convert anyone. You seem weirly obsesed with religion, but this is not about religion.
One thing you are right is about the "energy", since if what you expect is for people to just agree with you and act as if the problems you mention are exclusive of men instead of just human, then no, it is not happening.
I offered advice that work, it is on you if you want to ignore and let things remain the same for you.