I've noticed that all the ones who agree with you are men, not a single women are saying or acting as if they like that.

By the way, what you call "nasty comments" are usually women expresing their dislike of that position and acting. That is the opposite of "always follow". Chances are that what you would call "negativity" or "not being femenine" is basically all the women who aren't attracted to your type. Most women don't want to be traditional. It shows in how women date now.