Elisa Mariño
2 min readMar 14, 2022

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Let me be very clear, some lesbians date men before they come out of the closet because there are plenty of prejudices. But that doesn't mean they do like men. That means that once they are out of the closet, your chances with them are none existant. If you are one of those men who try to "convert lesbians", not only you won't get a date with them, but it would be so embarrasing that people who find out would look at you in pity. You'll be selfsabotaging your chances with other women who find out because they would consider you pathetic. And then you would claim that is feminist sabotaging you, but it would be completelly on you and your actions.

Bisexual women in relationship with a woman are out the market the same way that a heterosexual woman in a monogamous relationship is. That is the point, not all women are interested in men in the same way that not all men are interested in women.

You might not like what I said, but the number of women that are actually available and potentially interested in men from your demographic is not that high. You only need to look at dating apps data to have an stimation. For each women there are 3 men there. And women are more selective, they swipe left more frequently. That should give you a hint.

The men who assume that just because they are interested in a woman they have a chance, are bound to be disappointed because many times that chance doesn't even exist.

Trying to explain your failures as "feminist sabotaging men" just show your inability to adjust to what happens. So you'll keep repeating the same mistakes. That is on you.

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Elisa Mariño
Elisa Mariño

Written by Elisa Mariño

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