Let me think, if I compare what my grandmas were allowed to do with what I'm allowed to do, I can confidently say that my life is way better than theirs. So chances are that feminist have already help women like me.

Sure, some people would never take us seriously. But then again, some people would consider that a woman changing a diaper is a "disgusting creature" while at the same time, expecting her to have children and raise them. As if raising children didn't involve changing diapers among other things like cleaning puke or the children making messes that would need to be cleaned. And all while considering themselves "empathetic". XD