Many women do. The thing is that, sometimes, that doesn't have the effect men expect it to be. Dating is an example.

For the longest time I heard how approaching women was difficult, how taking initiative and face rejection terrible, etc. Then I tried it. And while being rejected is hard and approaching takes some courage, I discovered that it suited me better than all the "dance" and prepping and nonsense of having to encourage someone to ask you out while dodging the men that you don't like and are asking. And then dealing with the angry responses of maybe 10-15% of men that doesn't take rejection well. Or the ones who "don't take no for an answer".

So I suppouse I could explain how you can attract people and encourage them to ask you out. How to "stand out from the crowd". But I won't go back to that, neither recommend it. Women who are bad at this, don't get dates and tend to feel invisible on top of being rejected. All this while being told that women can get dates easily (which I suppose you can if you say yes to men 20 or 30 years older, but men can do the same and ask women way older than men. Or go to cougar places).

I guess my point is that you assume that since we don't reach the same conclusions or agree, we must not be putting in your skin. But sometimes is just that we disagree.