Maybe the real problem is the condescending. When you assume someone is "dumb" and expect them to be your maid, it is normal that the other person doesn't want anything to do with you. Why would you ever be with someone who clearly doesn't respect you?

Not that the description of the other men sounds better. To be fair, if all the men behaved like that, most women would choose to remain single. XD

Plenty of assumptions not based in reality.