No, I need someone who knows I can solve my own problems and that I am the one who know best for myself. Who trust my capabilities. Someone who let my chose my own path and walk at my side, not in front "to guide me". A partner, not a leader.

Leaders can take you in the wrong direction or force you to slow pace in order for them to remain at the lead. Real partners won't tell you what to do. they trust that you do know what to do.