Poor you. It must be seriously traumatizing that you can't blame all your problem on women like men have been doing since the bible was written and Eva was declared the reason for leaving paradise.

Let's face, people like you are so used to blame women, gays, immigrants or anyone that is not them that they have started to believe that those people are actually responsible of their problems. So not being able to blame women feels "unfair" and traumatizing.

But is not new, neither "liberal" or "leftist". It is a classic right wing tactic. Funny thing, you are not even aware of how you have been doing this for ever and what is supposed to be an exaggeration, doesn't, because white men have been complaining about everything since forever.

I mean, who opposed women's suffrage already cast themselves as victims:

https://www.mcsweeneys.net/articles/14-common-complaints-against-radical-women-suffragettes

See point 8 and point 9.

And I'm sure that historical documents show more examples of white men playing victim when other people asked for basic human rights.