So go for it. But just so you know, it might not be the easy path you think. After all, you'll need to please her before she marry you and you get the sweet divorce you want (assuming there is not a prenup). And you would need to actually do the housework to her standard. And really take care of the children.
There are rich women with enough income to pay for everything. Of course, in order to do that, you might want to look for older women with a more stablished career. So try asking those out or go to a cougars club if you prefer to be asked.
If you would really love to be a stay home husband, you need to do the work. From looking the part, to learn how to be a good cook, and to know what to say to be liked by her. Just like traditional wives have learned. You are currently in the "phase" of "chasing a wife" ;)