Sometimes is about priorities. One of my friends is really successful, but her work requires her to travel a lot and work long hours. It is usually the long hours and the traveling that gets in the way of her relationships. And she doesn't want to change her job because she love it.

So for her finding a partner means finding someone who understands that she would be away from home a lot of time. Where I live that is not that easy.

She still has plenty of dates, it is just the part about getting more serious when they ask for more commitment.