Sure, if you date people of similar values, you might end single.

But the thing is that feminist women are Ok with being single. They are taught that they can work for themselves, get a wage and have a nice life being single. They can also become single moms using artificial insemination or adopt. So even if being single is not their prefered living choice, they have alternative models for a happy life.

On the other hand, the conservative model requires a "wife" who stays at home, have children and rises the children on her own without taking real credit, of course. There is a long list of things she must be or do. The "golden bachelor" thing, doesn't really work for all conservatives and needs "beautiful, young women" to date. But with many of those being feminist or liberal, they are competing with the conservative men who want to marry. So they end angry and feeling "cheated by those ugly feminist who they don't want to date" but should be available anyway and change their ways so they have a huge pool of women to choose from. XD

That is why we get answers, they assume that we should be available and also want to be liked by them, so we need to change : diet, have surgery, use make up, look pretty and change our values to what they told us...

Yes, there is an unbalance, but one side is suffering more than the other.