Sure, we women are terribly entitled for wanting to be treated as people. Worse! we won't take accountability for men's choices and actions anymore. Why won't we take the blame for them as we used to?/sarcasm

Maybe the problem is that you expect women to sacrifice for men and do what is convenient for men, regardless of what is good for them. You want them to not be "golddiggers" but at the same time, you expect that having a job is the only thing that a men have to do in the relationship. That is, that the men only brings money to the table. Well, if you don't want to be valued for your money, you would need to offer something else, right? Like supporting women, or do your share of house chores. And chances are that you would need more connection and respect them for a relationship to work, not expect that women do all the compromise and work in the relationship. And if doesn't work, maybe you need to break up and keep looking, not blame women. But then again, many men expect women to make life better for them, even if they owe nothing to them.