Thanks. To be fair, most men aren't like that. In the same way I've found predators, I have also found men who cared for other people. Some have helped against those other men.

I think society is not homogeneus. Not all men are the same, not all women are the same. Change might be slow, but some people change. And sometime small things change how we see things.

In the same way that I've said that you should waste your efforts in people who don't appreciate, I think it is very important that we appreciate the efforts other people do for us and try to reciprocicate. For me it is almost a mantra. XD

I've notice that the simple act of being nice with the people that is nice with you and reacting awkwardly when people is not nice, overtime makes people behave nicer. I mean, lets say that someone is oversteping boundaries. Then you make it awkward and uncomfortable for them. But if the same people is nice other day, you are nice back. Eventually, people learn that it is better to be nice.

And most people prefer to be nice and surrounded by nice people. So cutting from the group the people who is not nice eventually makes things better on the day to day. Except for the bullies, but those aren't my problem. XD