The same people that used to tell "grow a thick skin" to people who complained about being insulted, payed less, treated badly, profiled,and even killed, now complains about being called racist because it hurt their feelings. That is in a nutshell white fragility.

You might not like it, but they have a point. They probably would gladly trade places with you and accept people talking about "black fragility" in exchange for not being the ones killed by the police, payed less, profiled, etc.