There are normal men who can have normal conversations. Not in dating apps, but there are plenty in day to day. The tricky part is that many of those men are also respectful and won't approach to you without reason.

But I have coworkers, people from the gym, from my hobbies, friends... They usually share things from their lives and that is how you identify them. Usually how they speak about other women hints about how they see you. Keep hope, normal men are there.