They are already chosing to work. Just look at the stats and numbers. Also, some men like trad wives, other prefer to be a "DINK" and others are happy to share the breadwinning role. Hell, people with money usually pay someone to do house chores.
The trad wife job is boring as hell, not valued and have many downsides. Even the young women who try it, tend to change their minds once they see what it looks like to have to work 24x7 with no breaks, sick days, holidays or acknowledment. When they see that, they usually push for a change. For some it means divorce, for others marriage counsel. And while for some it would take 10 years, for some only 2 or 3.
It is telling that the ones bringing the idea of women staying at home are the men, not the women. And that right wing men are having a harder time finding girlfriends. Also, that the young women are the ones going low or no contact with the conservative families.
I guess that is why conservatives think that "feminism destroy families", after all, the more feminism, the less young women are fooled into being submisive, compliant and to sacrifice for the men. And conservatives need to treat women as second class for their system to work.
I think that the ones who have been avoiding accountability are conservative men. That is why they get so angry when women walk away from them. Even if that means that the women have to work for an income and live on their own. Men on the other hand, not always pay child support and try to remarry so they don't have to take care of their children themselves or do domestic chores.
But don't worry, if you are right, young women would go back to the kitchen on their own. If not, they would keep studying and pursuing careers. Let them choose if you are so sure that they would want the "easy" out of being a stay at home wife.