This is what that "bond" looked like:

https://miro.medium.com/max/1400/1*xJ9CfWkSyacSXQAnYrRp6g.jpeg

What exactly in that image needs to be protected? What part of that image is "stick together"? Because it looks very one sided from my perspective. Sure, the men in the picture probably was the "breadwinner". But women today are breadwinners too and don't ask to be served like men used to. So be clear, what is exactly your grievance? In which way have you been "pushed back"? Because your answer probably would reflect all the ways in which men used to be "pushed forward at the cost of putting down women. Things that men used to take for granted because the ones paying the price were women.

And now you ask the "lovely ladies" to keep pushing men forward without even considering the cost for them or that what they get in exchange for that sacrifice might not be what the "lovely ladies" dream of.

Our grandmas, "lovely ladies" that sacrifice everything for their families, wanted something better for us. They don't want the same for us, they support the "harpies". That should tell you all. Maybe the real problem is that for all your claims about "stick together", men haven't really stuck for women.

Sometimes, to have nothing is better than only having burdens because in that instance, having nothing also means freedom.