Trad wives that you see in internet work as right wing influencers. That is their career. And they openly lie about their life style like all influencer do. The lie is to show edited versions of that life. They never show the struggles, the bad days or the help at home they might have.
They might have service or maids who do the cleaning, who wake up at night if the baby cries. But most girls won't have any of that. Neither the money.
On the other hand, seeing the voting trends, I think most of their followers are men, not women. And while some men baby trap women (yes, they get them pregnant so they can force them to become stay at home moms), many young women still prefer to go to university and have careers. Some are even going 4B.
That is why conservatives want to ban abortion and take away women's rights, because even with the propaganda, most young women still prefer freedom. The trad wife way of living is not that great even in the idealized version. And even the trad wives would turn on it once the money from the followers starts to dry. In fact, those trad wives would be the first to ask for divorce the second there is not enough money.
So have hope, young women are more clever than people think.