Translation: they chose what make them happy instead of what make you happy. And many end with partners that make them happy or learn in the process.

You might not like their choices, but you are only allowed to make your choice, not choose for others.

By the way, anyone who talks about "high value" is basically reducing people. Both men and women. You are not seeing them as individuals with their own feelings, dreams, hopes, needs and strengths. No wonder women are opting out of dating your "high value men", if they think like you, they are areductive and that in itself is reason enough to not date them.

You values are terrible. Men aren't "cashing machines" which is what your values reduce them to (because stability and loyalty basically translate to payong bills and we all know it). And women aren't submisive bangmaids (which is the role you would reduce them once married). Also, many women are just opting out of the market, so it is not about "fleeting thrills" but about not dating someone just to pay bills.