True. and sometimes we have those things so internalized that we adapt you behaviour to avoid those men but at the same time we "don't see it". I mean, women tell each others that they should avoid to get too drunk, lef the drink unnatended, etc. But fail to see that some times getting someone drunk is part of the strategy and that they in fact offer alcohol after rejection to keep pressuring to get what they want, regardless of the rejection.
It is similar to spiking someone's drink. It is about removing their chances to say no. (Or anything) and make them "unrealiable witnesses".