We both know she is doing the right thing for her (and her potential partners). Marriage and children is not always the right thing for everyone. Even then, people should consider that sometimes the one who need to put his career on hold is the man. I mean, many times, she is the one with better career and pay in the couple. Yet, people tend to assume that women should marry, have children and be the ones to sacrifice their careers for "the family". But if that is not the right thing for a woman, doing that makes them bitter and resentful. Not good for a healthy relationship. I've seen that in a grandma and it was terrible. She is a good person, but tries to live through her children what she wasn't allowed to live herself. It is sad because she has all that missed potential.

Relationships now need to reach new compromises. But that is good, since it allows for better outcomes.