We share this experience, I'm afraid. They might be worse for you, but cis women who won't conform, also get punished.

Some feminist would consider make-up a way to express themselves, others would experiment with different hair colours, fashion, etc.

While I agree that natural doesn't mean better, I also think that people should learn to appreciate non altered beauty. After all, make up tend to dry your skin. And some people whould rather not have surgeries. Those things should be choices, not done because we face presure to not age or to achieve certain body shapes.