Well, considering that the men who care about body count are sexist, completely. It is better to be single than end with someone who doesn't respect you as a person.

Funny thing, I've a long term partner. And I'm not the only one. Maybe the fact that I live in a country where the norm about "body count" is "who cares?" is why.

But I agree with you on something, maybe if I lived surrounded by guys like you, I would fear to be raped. Because, you know, men with that kind of ideas aren't exactly nice to have around. In a civilized country, no, that is not a problem.

By the way, when you hear about women who married being virgins that end leaving or cheating, remember this conversation about body count being unrelated to loyalty. And notice I said when, not if.