Who is we? If you meant all or most women, I disagree. .

Many women think it is normal that after a divorce a man needs to go back to his parents. Or if something happens and is down on his luck. We might not like that a man who doesn't have a paid job, don't do house chores either.

Women are way more nuanced that you want us to sound. We do understand cancer treatments or healthcare debt. We do understand divorces.

We do understand plenty of "life happens". But what we many of us don't understand is "doormat" or "settling" because fear of being alone.