Women are people. People need to find on their own who they are and their purpose. It is not different from men finding their identity and purpose. That is supposed to be one of the core philosophical questions. We don't need others to answer for us. That is what is dehumanizing. That other decide that my identity and purpose is [insert whatever it suits that person and justify because "biology"].

Your premise about women losing a decade is false. And I would even illustrate it:

https://ichef.bbci.co.uk/news/1024/media/images/73060000/jpg/_73060165_large-promo.jpg

https://www.sonianarang.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/Januka-in-Field_crop.jpg

Considering that you haven't done basic research to see if your statement about what works and things women did, I'll say that your thesis needs way more work.