Yet you accuse me of hating men for pointing out that centuries of inequality affect at how we see things today. And that when men are used to have 90% of the roles, 33% of the roles going to women feels as "too much", and 67% of the roles going to men feels that women are "taking things from men". But if you look at the numbers, equality would be a 50-50%.
I don't know why you do believe that you would never be enough. People are enough by default. There is nothing you must or mustn't do. It does sound as something that might need a therapist, not related to equality.
By the way, your idea that I only say negative things about women is also about perspective. From your perspective, not praising men all the time is negative. I've the impresion that some men are... sensitive. You can criticize anything about them without first putting plenty of "bandaids" praising them in other areas and making sure that whatever you say it is easily ignored. Otherwise you are acused of hating men.
Well, luckyly there are men that aren't that sensitive and are able to accept criticism without becoming "dramatic" and going all "Oh, woe is me, why do you hate me?". The thing is, since I do think well about most men, I do think that they can be reasoned with, take criticism and be interested on making things fair. Not so women stop complaining or praising them, but because it is the right thing to do.
The problem with me is not that I hate men, but that I hold them in the same level of respect as women. I expect as much of them as from women. My view of men is of most of them being good and reasonable. That is why I don't coodle them or sugarcoat criticism and I praise them or agree with them only when they earn it.
And if someone wants to see me as a man-hater for not treating men as lost causes that need women to be less so they can feel as more than what they are. Or that are so thin skinned that you can say anything without hurting their feelings, well, it is their choice. But that says more about them than about me.
My father rised me to be assertive, not to shut up about injustices because speaking up might hurt the feelings of the people who benefit from injustice.
By the way, being expected to praise men before being able to criticize something from men so people can't say that "you only say bad things about men" in an article would be completely condescending towards men. Most can understand context. Since I see men as equals, I think they don't need that.
